Finding them is easy with our totally FREE Underground dating service.

Sign up today to browse the FREE personal ads of available Illinois singles, and hook up online using our completely free Underground online dating service!

underground online dating secrets-3

Meeting for coffee, in this case, is also a good idea.

* If you are out with her, and you do like her, a great compliment is: "You know, your pictures are great, but you are much more attractive in real life." This way, you help her relax.

The beauty of internet dating is that it gives women a forum to indicate what they want without it being embarrassing or socially "unacceptable".

This helps to simplify things for men too – before you even send your initial email, you know some things about her and what she is looking for.

To give yourself a fighting chance, get some good pictures of yourself.

I am not talking about getting a pro photographer in tow, but rather have a friend with a digital camera take 20-30 pictures of you.

She is definitely going to feel awkward with her appearance and will hope you find her attractive.

Put her mind at ease, and about 20 minutes into the date tell her she looks great. It is really to see if both of you feel any attraction.

This helps to alleviate her anxiety about meeting you.