I met the POF guy shortly after Thanksgiving and had a wonderful cozy holiday with him.

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I accept that it will take time to get over (in this case) my BPD lover. \ Until then, I am grateful for my health, my friendships, my sobriety, and for my accomplishments. Reply Hi Kim – Your work helped me recover from a love affair with someone who had textbook NPD, Thank You! While recovering from NPD boyfriend, I did use POF and OKC, looking specifically for buddies with similar interests.

Three years later I’m off the sites because I’ve found real love, but a few of my current best friends are men I met on these sites.

–The key to success really seems to be to practice self-validation and go out in the real world, attend meet-up group events, and be very attentive to the people around you in every day situations. I am grateful for Kim’s transparent description of Tinder and POF, no need to waste my own time or recommend it to anyone, thank you much! Wishing you the best, Kim Reply When I finally looked to see if the ex narcopath had dating profiles I found some where around ten on various dating/hook up/swinger sites. My tip to anyone newly dating someone is to do a Google search on their phone number. Both only lasted about 5 months and were absolute train wrecks.

The ex had his number posted on nearly all of the profiles I found. Both narcissists, lying, cheating manipulative jerks. The opening of this post made me laugh and shake my head.

Reply Kim, you have been very helpful in so many ways.

People who want full body shots also tend to watch a lot of pornography and they will compare you to the people they’re looking at on porn sites, and 2) Again, generally speaking, sending someone a full body shot is really a personal thing. I don’t want to hurt him but I don’t want to lose him as a friend am I wrong should I tell him and take a chance of losing him or keep my secret? 3 Dating Sites to Avoid That are Crawling with Narcissists […] Reply You forgot Linked In as the new dating site!!! Reply You are right about Linked In, it is definitely become a NARC site, being that an ex whom is an extreme serial relationship and marriage narcissist was always pushing his and trying to get everyone elses’ info.

the bad grammar used to be notorious as well, I think that has improved these days. I still cant help but swipe left for any guy with a selfie because my inner voice screams “Narcissist!!!! Through training with people like Kim, it’s a lot easier to spot the narcissists; the I I I I aye types; the ones demanding a Rolls Royce or a Bentley; the ones that subtly insult you in the opening words, or start a quarrel (wadya mean you are a female contractor; bet you don’t get dirty.) I do get dirty, and I’ve been doing so since you were a gleam in your Daddy’s eyes. Very recently, I just pulled the plug on everything.

My grammar is not perfect, but my first language is spanish, so my apologies. I’m getting much happier with who I am, thank you very much.

– One of them was too meek to pull this, but the other negged me horribly, trying to break my confidence down to convince me that I couldn’t do any better.

People often tell me that I am very attractive, well this horrible man told me that I’m so physically flawed no other man in the world could want me. They get some kid of fix from winning in video games that they can’t get irl because they are too lowly.

The one man I met in person seemed very interesting and interested, but shared early on that even e Harmony had told him he was not “matchable” due to his social awkwardness.