It’s nearly always nothing against you – there’s stuff going on with them that’s preventing them from getting into the sexy mood.

Have a signal system This sounds silly, but it can be a big help.

If your partner can’t tell when you want sex, and you can’t tell if they’re in the mood, come up with a signalling system to get the message across.

And if they’re not in the mood, it doesn’t feel as embarrassing as going in for a neck kiss and getting the ‘no’. Stop keeping score Sex is not a competition or a to-do list, and feeling as though they’re being monitored is unlikely to make anyone feel sexy. Don’t say your partner has to initiate because you did it the last three times.

Relax, let things happen, and allow your partner to initiate when they feel comfortable doing so.

Help because you care about your partner, not just because you’re trying to have sex.

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