You love the conversation you're having with your girlfriend.

The man you are speaking to is trying to decide if he’d like to date you.

That means you have to be friendly, warm AND pleasant.

Inquire about her likes and her dislikes of movies, food, books and television to keep the conversation relevant to her.

Ask random questions such as what her dream vacation, dream career, dream life or favorite cities are.

If you mess up the phone call, you could end up with few first dates and keep yourself single.

Here are five tips to help you have a great first phone call and hopefully get a first date too! Make a good impression – the first phone call is a two way street Many women forget the first phone call is a two way street.Many of my dating coaching clients have questions about what to ask during the first phone call. Understandably, most busy midlife women say they don’t have time to waste on the wrong men.What I have found over the past 10 years as a dating coach, and from my own journey to find my own husband, this can be trickier than you think.But she's starting to make noises about hanging up and you're wondering if there's any way to keep the conversation going.With the proper tactics, you might keep her on the phone for more conversation. Ask a specific question about something she did that day, or a friend or family member.If you only focus on getting through your list of questions, you won’t connect or be much fun. Be realistic – you can’t learn everything in the first phone call Dating is a process and it’s purpose is to “gather data “. To really know if a man is right for you, most of the time you have to meet him.