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I hope his/her decision to do so suits him/her well and that he/she is happy.

I only phrase it that way as I don't know if there's been surgical intervention. We're no longer in contact but gender did not play a role in our loss of communication.

An intersex child growing up as the wrong sex will come to no more harm than a normally sexed child who grows up to become TV and has the ops etc.

Psychologically it would be similar with the exception of course that the intersex child would find out about the childhood ops and may have resentment as a result.

I know you can adopt/surragecy/fostering these days but not everyone feels able to do that.

Im fairly open minded about children but that may change as i get older and if having my own child with my partner was reallly important to me then having a relationship with an intersex partner who could not do that would be a lot harder.

These days as adults people in our society regularly choose to identify with another sex and some go as far as having the ops to do it.

An intersex child who grows up at odds with his physical sex would be able to fit in with society within the range of accepted adult norms and go through ops etc if they so wished and live a normal life.

Obviously genetics giving you the sex of a person merely means that "intersex" people are just deformed rather than a specific sex.

If you go by genitalia then the answers are not obvious!!

At the time I knew him,he lived and identified as male. S.)so anything other would have been impractical,he was a very warm,intelligent and honest person,and I would have been okay if the relationship had progressed as anything more than friends.