That can involve joining meetup groups and then actually attending them. Things will pop up, from the local LGBT bar and Pride events, to LGBT community centers and meetup groups. If you need to, bring friends to push you past your shyness and be your Wing’Maam. She’ll tell you things like she’s a nut about being on time or that she never keeps her commitments and always runs late because she overbooks.

And remember this is when you can wear one of the great outfits you’ve already put together. Pay attention to the details of what she shares with you.

Use your imagination when thinking of dating entertainment. Having the same likes/dislikes, interests, and accomplishments makes it easier to breathe when dating someone new.

Becoming familair with one another's boundaries help to build chemistry for future dates.

If you are a shy gay man, here are a few steps that might help you get the date you want. Eye contact and self assurance are qualities you want to give off, when dating.

Hygiene, neat appearences, and cologne fragrances will give your self esteem a big boost.

There’s a right way and a wrong way to start dating and begin a relationship.

Here are my top 9 must-know rules for doing it the RIGHT way.

One casual and one dressy in whatever your style is.

Try them on, check the fit, and make sure you FEEL GREAT in the clothes.

It also means you’ve looked at your part in what didn’t work.