"There is a misconception that these activities can cause damage by stretching or tearing the tissue, when actually the anus is very elastic and much of the 'permission to enter' actually involves intentional relaxation of the muscles by the bottom" and not force applied by the top, Dr. (The top applies gentle pressure, the bottom breathes, relaxes, and opens up.) "If a person suffers from constipation, that should be addressed as its own problem and not blamed on any type of anal sexual activity," said Dr. "In addition: For obvious reasons, it's not fun to bottom if you're constipated, so it would be good to have this problem evaluated and treated by a nonjudgmental health-care provider who understands that anal penetration—by fist, penis, or dildo—does not cause constipation." Finally, FIST, your doctor was misinformed, which is not helpful.

You say you love your wife, but you also say she'd be crushed—destroyed—if she discovered what you've been doing.

Be honest, ASSHOLE, just this once: Is the destruction of your wife a bug or is it a feature? Because cheating on this scale isn't about succumbing to temptation or reacting to neglect.

More than 90,000 visitors hiked Starved Rock State Park during Memorial Day weekend and eight ventured in on Tuesday armed with garbage bags and trash pickers to restore the trails to their natural glory.

Background: I, a 21-year-old male, enjoy receptive fisting. Question: I saw my doctor recently, and he tried to link my enjoyment of anal sex to my constipation. Fearing Inner Sanctum Tarnished "There are many myths about anal sex, but this is the first time I've heard this one," said Dr.

On the one hand, I do not regret my time with any of these women. We are also very socially and financially entangled. And if so, I need help considering an exit strategy. It doesn't "just keep happening," ASSHOLE, you keep doing it.

Not one-night-stand scenarios, but longer-term connections. These have included what turned into a one-year affair with a single woman, a three-year affair with a close friend of my wife, a seven-month affair with a married coworker, and now a fairly serious four-months-and-counting relationship with a woman who approached me on Instagram. I love her, we get along great, and the sex is good—if I wasn't such a lying piece of shit, you could even say we make a pretty good team.The first step toward holding yourself accountable for your appalling actions—a close friend of your wife? Or maybe the wrongness and the self-loathing—the whole bad-boy-on-the-rack routine—turn you on.Or maybe you're the wrong kind of sadist: the un-self-aware emotional sadist.First, ask her if she enjoyed oral when she allowed you to go down on her.(Remember, the fact that she climaxed isn't proof that she enjoyed it. Did you go down there without asking, which didn't give her higher brain functions/inhibitions a chance to kick in?And while you claim that each of these women pursued you despite knowing you were in an exclusive relationship, it doesn't sound like you ran from any of them. " as if the universe were conspiring against you somehow. If you'd sought out a partner who wanted an open relationship—a wide-open one—you could have had concurrent, committed, nonexclusive relationships and avoided being "a liar, a cheat, a user," etc.