in conversation, but you have to watch it around a cub. Don’t completely stay quiet about what you’ve done!

Part of what attracts a young guy to an older woman is all her knowledge and experience about careers, travel, relationships and life in general.

Traditionally and even today, a girl's parents would do a background check into a man's character if their daughter were seriously interested in him.

The kind of dating you pursue depends on your choice and whether you are dating for flirting or with an intention to marry.

Be honest and communicate your true feelings for her.

To make your dating an enjoyable experience, you should allow the relationship to develop gradually, and always be yourself.

Your body won’t bounce back the same; and if he wanted a party girl, he’d be with one, instead of you. The greatest thing about dating someone younger is that he has so many places to show you that you’d never know about otherwise, and visa versa. You’ve had a longer life and inevitably accomplished more than your cub.

It’s natural to reference your own history, experiences, victories etc.

Too many cougars hit the gym obsessively, whittling their bodies down to nothing but bone. He won’t know as much about money management or interior design or even table manners as you do.

His apartment might be messy and his resume might be all botched up. If you lie about having children or send them away to visit their aunt anytime your cub comes over, everybody will feel guilty.

You probably don’t have the abs you used to back in the day, so get acquainted with flowy tops.