4) They are egalitarian: I’ve had people I consider big.boss in a foundation, the medical specialist, the brainy professor or even the pastor, address me like they were my equal, eyeball to eyeball.I find myself thinking that back home in Kenya, unless he’s a relative or close friend, people with similar qualifications prefer to float on celestial clouds further up, at a high unreachable pedestal, with some assistants scurrying around to transmit messages to we “earthly mortals.” Your protests will likely be met with a booming rebuttal ‘Haiyaaa, si there’s a chain of command!

’ 5)They are not finicky over food: Ask a dutch guy over for lunch and he will be perfectly fine with slices of bread served with cheese and ham followed by hot cups of coffee.

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This has had an effect on their people, that being they are pragmatic. No dutch guy I’ve dated has ever asked me to pay my half, rather the only thing that’s been said was, ‘Would you like some coffee or tea? ” 8) They are blunt: Freedom and individuality is espoused in the Netherlands.

A dutch guy is likely to be a person of integrity, openly discussing issues and asking deeply personal questions.

2) They are courteous and helpful: There’s always that bit of relief when transiting to a flight headed for the Netherlands.

Not only will I unwittingly eavesdrop conversations spoken in a familiar tongue, but if I have to go up some stairs and my hand luggage is heavy, some random dutch guy will be tripping over himself to help me carry my luggage and lift it into the overhead compartment.

You will know exactly where you stand with a dutch guy, which is especially cool as there are many cons and tricksters out there to waste your time.

9) They are family oriented: Dutch guys have a mastery of work-life balance.

He won’t mind you barking out orders or getting you a cup of tea.

You would however, steer clear of ones that beg to be tied up and whipped, because they are out there (Unless you are game).

Here, even with 12-inch heels, I’m still quite average among dutch guys.