I’ve always felt that if the relationship is working well and both people are happy, marriage is just a title.

But that title has a risk attached to it (and thanks to “horror stories”, the news, movies, media, etc.

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The topic hasn’t come up again since and at this point, I am just about ready to give him an ultimatum- either he proposes or I’m leaving.

I’m also thinking of just getting him a ring at this point just to move this thing along!

But for me, that would be the determining factor for when I tie the knot.

Now, I’m going to give you a viewpoint that many guys think about and fear.

How and where can someone interested in the possibilities get started?

Let’s take a closer look at the answers to all of these questions and more. I tend to be a risk-averse guy, so I’m not in hurry to get married.All the nice parts of marriage sound nice to me, but the prospect of divorce sounds awful…The problem is, there are many considerations that guys have to make that you need to consider too. Personally, I don’t plan on getting married until I’m ready to start a family.When you can understand why a guy might have reservations to getting married (or at least, might not be motivated to get married), it will help you communicate better and ultimately get you to a place where you may both decide it’s time for marriage. That’s just my personal view and I’m not suggesting or projecting that anyone else should share it.Also, I think it would be in your best interest to relax and wait for him to propose marriage to you. Aside from him probably feeling insulted by the gesture, can you imagine if he did go for it?