Dating someone who works on wall street
Why would you want to have to deal with your husband’s incontinence right after you finish cleaning up after your parents’ senior messes?
If you want to wait to have a kid until you’re in your early 30s, your older man is going to be about 50.
This can’t quite happen if his youth took place a couple of decades before yours.
He won’t be able to mesh easily with your crowd and will stick out like a graying, sore thumb at parties attended by fresh-faced 25-year-olds. These women will specifically go out of their way to make you feel unwelcome in their crowd.
If you’re young (college or just out of college), girls do not have high expectations. Since girls do not have high expectations when you’re 18-22 years old, do not try to use money to get girls. They are more concerned with you being a cool and attractive person. If you are making ~$150K out of college as an investment banker, you’re going to have a slight edge over your competition. When you start making ~$300K at age 26-28 you are now in the top ~10% in major cities and life will get significantly easier. Even if you’re still trying to date younger girls they *expect* you to have some income.
When you are young, girls care much less about how much money you make. Living at home in your parents basement is simply not going to cut it.
The graph depicts her expectations of your income versus your age.
As you get older and older, the amount of money you’re *expected* to have will continue to increase! You simply do the following: 1) get in incredible shape and join a sports team, 2) learn how to dress and 3) improve your social skills. the amount of money you’re making will help you *immensely*.
They will never trust him if he’s 10-plus years your senior, no matter what he does to gain their approval along the way.
If he encourages you to do this before you’re ready, you will forever resent him for what you missed out on.
You can use money to hire a social skills coach (extreme situation).
You can use money to hire a personal trainer (fitness).
Having to run around after a 5-year-old is hard work, especially if it’s been that much longer since your man ran around as a 5-year-old. Older people warrant more of it, so while your man’s white hair will give him all kinds of credit with the people you two encounter, you’ll automatically be dismissed as slightly inferior, regardless of your personal attributes.