According to an article in Psychology Today magazine, two out of every five men has had an affair by the age of 45.If you're the other woman, you might be in for a lot of hurt and heartache.She said that she doesn’t feel guilty dating those men, and that it is a really nice feeling to have all their attention since their wife is not getting any of it, so all their focus is on her.

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You could end up putting your whole life on hold for this man. Unless he divorces his wife right away, you just don't know how long you will wait. What kind of person takes up with someone else while still married?

He might tell you he and his wife are both OK with the situation, but you just don't know.

Instinctively, most of you would go for the obvious answer: wrong.

But you may be as surprised as I was to hear that some women think otherwise. Since there are plenty of women out there with no ethics (some may say) who choose to steal another woman’s man in order to satisfy whatever needs they have; may they be physical, emotional or psychological needs.

In fact, it was only yesterday that I Facebooked about it criticizing women who allow themselves to be in such a relationship.

So it was only very ironic to have this conversation on the following day. What do you think of Muslim and other married men and women who do?You don't know the nature of his relationship with his wife.However, when you put yourself in his wife's shoes, you see things differently. But in this situation, you are the other woman and you are coming between him and his family.He might say his wife is a horrible person and try to put her down, but again, you don't know.It's not a good sign that he'll cheat on someone instead of being honest and working on the relationship.Now, as I mentioned earlier the only way you’re allowed to have four wives is if you’re able to equally take care of them all.