Dating a divorced male and ex wife wants to return
When a woman feels close to her husband, all is right in the world.However, if the marriage takes a back seat to other commitments, she pursues her husband for more connection by having frequent heart-to-heart talks.
“Why didn’t you tell me you were this unhappy,” these men protest, words that finally nail the marital coffin shut.
It is then that they start to recognize the importance of their wives and their children. It is said that people don’t change until they hit rock bottom and I can tell you first hand that the bottom doesn’t get any lower than the earth beneath these men’s feet.
If I stay in this marriage, you will go back to your old shenanigans,” which, though completely understandable, is nonetheless, tragic.
That’s because, rather than feign “appropriate husband behavior,” most of these men sincerely undergo a personal transformation that shifts their priorities forever. Every time a near-walkaway wife or her husband enters my office, I’m determined to do what I can to open her heart and mind to see the profound changes in her man.
“No news is good news,” they tell themselves as they obliviously continue to lead separate lives.
But then “D-Day” arrives and their wives inform them that the marriages are over, triggering shock and devastation.
That’s why I’m a huge proponent of marriage education.
Falling in love is easy, staying in love is another matter.
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the last thing our counselor said to me was You have a choice to make you can either stay knowing he is not going to change and make you a priority or you can get out and move on with your life. I have recently decided to get out of this loveless marriage and move on with my life working on making myself happy. He should have woken up a long time ago though, I get it. They don't care about the impact on their spouses or kids. What if the husband doesn't want to go through the work to fix it. My husband has some sort of 'episode' every time we have to do anything with my side of the family, so that he starts a fight, which he then says is my fault because I pushed him.